It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Melvin Edward “Skip” Haines, Jr. passed away peacefully at his home in Modesto, California, on January 2, 2026, at the age of 76, after a brief battle with lung cancer.

Skip was born on June 30, 1949, in Salem, Oregon, to Melvin and Ethel Haines, the third of four children. A proud graduate of North Salem High School, Class of 1967, he later moved to the San Francisco Bay Area in the 1970s, beginning a new chapter in California.

He spent most of his adult life on the road as a truck driver, a career that suited his independent spirit and love of travel. A lifelong fan of the Oakland Athletics and an enthusiastic lover of the blues—especially the music of Stevie Ray Vaughan and Joe Bonamassa—Skip’s passions brought him great joy.

Stubborn at times, always thoughtful, and endlessly passionate, Skip lived life on his own terms. He wasn’t perfect (and made no claims to be), but those who knew him appreciated his sincerity, humor, and genuine heart. Children, older folks, and dogs alike were drawn to him—proof enough, he’d say, that he was doing something right.

Skip was a devoted member of the Church of Christ in Oakdale, California. He is survived by his beloved wife and soulmate, Betsy, whom he married on December 21, 2002, and by their beautiful blended family: Karen Martinez of Vallejo, Julie King of Sacramento, Kevin Haines of Lodi, Troy Barros of Modesto, Joseph Barros of Fremont, and Michelle (David) Bender of Modesto. He also leaves behind eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren who will carry his memory in their hearts. There will be a Celebration of Life held in Modesto on February 7, 2026 at his daughter’s residence. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten.