I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
From the beginning...to the end

He noted that first came the date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years

For that dash represents all the time
That they spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved them
Know what that little line is worth

For it matters not, how much we own,
The cars...the house...the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So, think about this long and hard.
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect
And more often wear a smile,
Remembering this special dash
Might only last a little while

So, when your eulogy is being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent YOUR dash?

Cary Rollins , 67, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, passed on January 09, 2023. Cary was born on July 13, 1955. Cary is survived by his sister Deborah Rollins, brother Howard Rollins, three kids Mykah Summer-Wayman, Joey Summer-Wayman, and Kimberly Johnson.

Cary had a life full of love and experiences and for that his family is extremely grateful. He had many great memories and will continue to live on in many hearts. 

A quick ceremony will be held January 11th,2023 at 111 s grandview St Stillwater ok 74074 for only family members. Carys wish to be cremated will be granted, and family will be able to help spread the ashes together.