Trilby Kong Di Grande Trilby Kong Di Grande passed away on November 18, 2016 at her home in San Francisco, CA, ending her courageous battle with cancer. Trilby was born on June 3, 1954 in Hong Kong. She immigrated to San Francisco with her family in 1971 at the age of 17. Trilby worked at AT&T for 26 years, where she would meet her husband, Frank. Trilby and Frank were married in 2004. Trilby was a generous and loving woman who always put the needs of her friends and family first. She always looked forward to family get-togethers, had a passion for traveling and a love for trying new cuisines.Trilby is survived by her loving husband, Frank Di Grande, her two brothers, Aaron Kong (Connie) and Jacques Kong (Polly), her sister, Sandy Jung (Michael), her brother-in-law, Sammy Ma, and many nieces and nephews.She was preceded in death by her parents, Man Kaw Gong and Mow Ying Gong and her sister, Patty Ma.Family and friends are invited to celebrate her life on Sunday, November 27th at Woodlawn Memorial Park in Colma, CA. Visitation will begin at 10:30am followed by the memorial service at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the .